The Biblical Remedy For Depression
by Jay Allbright
What
I am about to share is very foreign to modern psychology. Before we talk about
the Biblical Remedy for Depression,
let’s lay a foundation first. There are three parts of man: Body, Soul and
Spirit. The Body is the physical attributes, or those
things that bother us physically which bring about depression. This is what
scripture is talking about when it says, "But ye,
brethren, be not weary in well doing." II Thessalonians. 3:13.
When
you wear yourself down physically, you are more prone to depression. There
should be a regular exercise time that is not
work or responsibility related. A walk around the neighborhood would be a
good example of stress-relieving exercise.
Carrying
the burdens of others can make you weary in well doing. Learn that you cannot
carry everyone’s burdens on your
shoulders. There are burdens you can share, i.e. husband, wife, children, or
close friends, but do not take their entire burden on
your shoulders.
Secondly,
there is the Spirit that involves our personal relationship with Christ.
Depression comes from this portion of our
being if we have never been saved or if we have somehow quenched the Holy
Spirit’s moving in our life. Maybe the Holy Spirit
prompted us to do something in particular and we did not respond, or maybe He
called us into a particular field of service and
we
did not follow His guidance. It may be that we are spiritually immature, which
makes it difficult to understand the spiritual
things in life. It may also be that your spirit has been wounded by the
actions of someone you were close to spiritually.
If
depression comes about due to the spirit part of man’s makeup, then it can only
be corrected through a spiritual decision.
Often
times that spiritual decision is to gain forgiveness from either the Lord or
others that you may have offended.
Now,
the third way depression comes is through the Soul. This is one of the most
critical ways depression gains a foothold in
our
life. Our soul is made up of a Mind, Will and Emotion. The Mind deals with what
you think. We have unfortunately been
taught that you correct your thinking by not thinking thoughts that are
damaging to you emotionally and spiritually. The problem
with that advice is that it is impossible. No one can think nothing on purpose. Your mind is always in operational mode.
It
doesn’t matter if you are asleep, awake, busy or playing your mind is always
active. Here is the biblical remedy for changing
your thinking. Phil. 4:8, "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are
true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever
things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely,
whatsoever things are of good report; if
there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these
things."
The
Bible remedy is quite different from the secular, psychological remedy. The
Bible doesn’t direct us not to think wrong
thoughts but rather to think right thoughts on purpose. If you think right
thoughts on purpose it leaves little time to think wrong
thoughts by accident. When you are not thinking right thoughts on purpose,
Satan reaches into the file folders of your mind and
pulls out every wicked, damaging thought that has ever been filed there. The
only way to overcome Satan’s reminding us of
every wicked thing we have ever heard or seen is for us to "Think Right
Things On Purpose."
The
second part of the soul that brings about depression is our Will. Sometimes we
want to be depressed because it is a way
for
us to demand the care of others.
The
third portion of the soul that brings about depression is Emotion. Both men and
women suffer depression due to this
element of the soul. We are emotional beings, which makes life enjoyable and
our relationship with Christ so rewarding. Think
of
all the emotional responses we make in regard to Christian service. The times
we say amen, the tears we shed, or the
laughter when something wonderful happens are all expressions of emotion.
The
Bible tells us, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit
drieth the bones", Proverbs 17:22.
The
opposite of a merry heart is a broken spirit. A merry heart is laughter and a
broken spirit is depression. So, if you find
something to laugh about, you are less likely to be depressed.
When
I think about depression I can’t help but consider the greatest biblical
example of the subject: Job. In Job
3:1-13, Job is
obviously going through depression. We would certainly agree that if anyone had
a right to be depressed he did. We see him
suffering from depression due to all three parts of man. His body is suffering
physically; his soul is suffering due to the emotional
stress of losing his family, wife, and friends; and his spirit is even
suffering because God seems so far from him. What was he to
do,
how would he recover? We know that he did recover but how? We see Job depressed
in chapter 3 of Job, and then in the
next 34 chapters we read the counsel he received from his counselors.
Just
to sum up the counsel he received, I will refer to the counselor and a brief
statement of the counsel given. First, Elipaz
offers his counsel. He summarized that God was simply correcting Job. Then, Bildad offers
somewhat the same counsel,
except he magnifies it a little. He says God is correcting you Job, and you
must just give up because if God doesn’t judge you
He
has perverted judgment. Zophars is a real help. He
tells Job that he is nothing more that a hypocrite and recommended that
Job
quit asking for help. Then Elihu comes on the scene.
He simply tells Job that he is self-righteous and a liar.
Notice
all of these counselors offer the same opinion and
none had the answer. So how did Job get better, how did he get
victory over the depression? Well he did receive counsel from one more
counselor. In Job 38, God had had enough of the
counsel Job was getting from his peers, and God himself offered the counsel
that would change Job’s life. God wanted Job to
know that He was God, and, as God, He created Job. He knew everything about
Job. He knew him better than Job knew
himself.
We
tend to determine what our problem is and take our own advice as to how to deal
with it. God then showed Job his
ignorance. We tend to always look at our life and what we have as that which is
owed to us, and yet God explains to Job that
Life
itself is a gift. Job had forgotten his own words in Job 1:21, "Naked came
I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall
I
return thither: the LORD gave, and the LORD hath taken away; blessed be the
name of the LORD". When Job’s trials
began, he recognized that God was in control, but as the trials increased he
turned his focus from God to himself. That’s when
depression set in.
You
see, depression, in many instances, is the worst form of selfishness. If this
is true then the best way to overcome
depression is to redirect our focus from ourselves and to God. Rarely do you see
depression when people are focused on their
personal relationship with God and helping others. There are cases when
chemical imbalances bring about depression, but I
believe this to be the exception not the rule. Here then is the prescription
to follow:
First,
realize that life is a gift from God. We did nothing to deserve to be born.
Since it is a gift we shouldn’t get upset when it
doesn’t work out exactly the way we planned. Life is a gift.
Secondly,
determine to laugh. Remember a merry
heart doeth good like a medicine.
Thirdly,
when you feel bouts of depression coming on, invest time helping others.
Remember the end of Job’s story? When he
listened to God’s advice he received everything he had lost, except it had doubled.